How Appreciation Shifts Your Mind and Energy

In the Northeast, where I live, it’s bitter cold and another blizzard is underway. Snow emergencies have been imposed — again. Schools are closed and work is disrupted — again.

And I am away.

I am savoring the warmth and sun and natural beauty of the Southwest, and feel deeply grateful to be here.

It is easy to appreciate that I was able to plan time away for a brief respite from winter, as well as to appreciate the good timing of being here now. 

And I am reminded that I can tune in to appreciation no matter what is happening in my life.

Appreciation shifts everything 

Much is written about the power of gratitude, and having a regular gratitude practice is terrific.

Appreciation is a bit broader and deeper than gratitude, and appreciation often generates gratitude.

Appreciation is about focusing on and recognizing the significance of something in the moment.

When you look for what you can appreciate, in any moment of your day, you shift your brain’s focus in incredible ways.

For example, even as you may be feeling upset, if you look for something to appreciate — perhaps delicious food at lunch, or a smile from someone you pass in a corridor — your brain will be triggered to release neurotransmitters like dopamine and serotonin.

These chemicals boost happiness.

The brain will also release less cortisol, thus lowering stress.

The more often you focus on what you can appreciate, the more resilient you will feel.

And anxiety will be reduced.

You may even experience improved sleep and lower blood pressure.

When you regularly look for what to appreciate, you shift into a positive mindset and are able to see possibilities you might otherwise have missed. 

What you focus on impacts your energy

The focus you bring to your days has a huge impact on the energy you bring to everything you do.

When you train yourself to focus on what you can appreciate, you will more naturally feel optimistic, strong, eager, and confident.

That’s positively charged energy — and that energy will boost the way you approach everything — all of your tasks, every conversation, each decision.

You will see and feel your creative power expand!

New ideas will show up.

You will have new levels of belief in what you are capable of and envision bigger possibilities.

You will be resourceful and flexible.

In turn, you will more magnetically engage others.

And you will experience more great outcomes.

Who wouldn’t want more of all of that goodness?

A (small) challenge for you today

Aim to took for and feel appreciation all through your day.

Make notes as you go, or at the end of the day list those moments.

Then sit for 20 to 30 seconds to savor the appreciation.

Last, take a brief moment to appreciate yourself for doing it!

And if you like what happens, or think that it will get better with practice, repeat the process tomorrow.

And keep it going. 

How to be a positive thinker (really!)

Thinking — it’s something we do all day, every day. And most of us rarely pause to consider the impact of what we think about.

I invite you to take a pause with me now.

Consider that, with awareness, your thoughts can become a super-power in your life.

The power of positivity

When you consciously focus on positive things (such as things you desire, new ideas and possibilities that excite you, or anything else that lights you up) and hold your focus on what’s possible and great outcomes, wonderful things happen.

Many of us start thinking about something that excites us and quickly shift to thinking about all the reasons it will be impractical, or hard to achieve, or we conjure a host of possible obstacles.

With intention, you can choose to stay with, or return to, the energy that excited you to begin with.

Not only will your positive thoughts keep you focused on taking action toward your desired outcomes, the energy you exude will impact everyone around you in great ways.

Your positivity and enthusiasm will naturally excite others, and it will attract people to support you.

Positive thoughts lead to positive energy, and that energy can be sustained and expand, even as you navigate challenges along the way.

How to avoid the pitfalls of worry, fear and doubt

Try these strategies whenever you struggle to think positive thoughts.

1. Turn around negative emotions

When you trust yourself and follow your heart, it is easier to connect to positive energy than you may think.

That said, we all have times when we feel low — we are human!

When that happens, you may want to wallow there, or you may want to ignore the feelings.

Instead, get quiet and sit with the emotion. Feel it. And from there you can “exercise” that emotion to transform it.

How?

Create with it!

For example, you might write out your feelings of sadness in a poem, or make a picture that expresses your frustration or confusion. You can dig in a garden, or dance to loud music, or hammer away in a workshop to release anger. Approaches like these help you to get the emotion offloaded from your thoughts and help you to feel lighter. From that place you can calmly refocus on the positive.

2. Tune out negativity around you

We sometimes find ourselves in the company of people who are filled with negative energy. It’s easy to be drawn into that unhappiness, anger, anxiety, or fear.

With awareness, you can keep from falling into the trap of absorbing negative contagions.

Start by finding a quiet place to sit and breathe in silence. When you focus on the present moment and your breath, you can separate yourself from the negative energy. If you breathe this way for as little as two minutes — or longer if possible — you will feel a shift. Or, you may want to sit and listen to a guided meditation, or walk in a quiet beautiful place. Any of these will help you find peace.

After that recentering, you can make a choice. Maybe you will not return to the conversation, or choose not to be in proximity to the person or group that was filled with negativity. Maybe you will return, but will state your point of view and declare that that you will bring a positive frame to discussing the situation.

Knowing how to get back to center will enable to start thinking positively, and choose the way you want to take action.

3. Adopt an abundant mindset

Rather than waiting to respond to negativity, you can preempt much of it when you embrace an abundant mindset.

How to begin?

Try incorporating one or more of these approaches in your day-to-day life:

• Focus on appreciation and gratitude. When you tune in to all there is to appreciate in your life, every day can automatically be filled with thoughts of gratitude.

• Choose to be generous. Be generous with your time. Be generous with your thoughts — yes, you can look for the best in people, realizing most people are doing the best they can. Be generous with money. Be generous with expressions of appreciation to others.

• Welcome abundance. This means feeling deserving and being ready and open to receiving more love, more income, more happiness, more kindness.

• Be curious. Ask yourself questions like, “What if it's possible that...?” and “What can I create now?” No matter the circumstances, you can always think creatively and create your next best, most positive step forward.

• Reframe. There is nearly always a way to reframe a less-than-optimal situation. Ask yourself how you might see it with fresh eyes to find the positive — or how you might find a way to turn things around.

An abundant mindset is a huge asset we can all cultivate.

Why not shift your thoughts today?

There’s no time like the present to consider how much your thoughts are focused on the positive, and to pay attention to when your thoughts dwell on the negative. And no time like now to choose the way that most appeals to you to build or expand an abundant mindset.

With ongoing awareness and practice, you will quickly realize any time your thoughts sink into negativity, and you can refer to these suggestions to shift your focus back to the positive.

Like any change you want to bring into your life, developing a habit of being a positive thinker will take practice. You may want to pick out a small journal to keep on hand and make notes to track how things are going as you focus on this new approach to your thoughts. It will help you to more quickly make positive thinking an automatic way of living.

This superpower is free for you to cultivate. Please let me know how it works for you!

Stay safe and well, and keep creating.