Who doesn’t love a quick-fix?
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Last week I wrote about the power of positive thinking, and shared a number of strategies to use when negative thoughts show up. In case you missed it, you can read it here.
I have an additional idea to share with you today — it’s an especially easy, fast technique you can use any time you need to quickly get into a better frame of mind.
Because sometimes we just need a go-to technique to use on the fly.
Three quick steps to lift your spirits
All of these are great when used alone, but when you string them together they are especially effective.
1. Pause and get quiet
Whenever you start to feel overwhelmed, or start down the path of negative thinking, a great first step is to briefly pause and take a few breaths.
If you can find a quiet spot to do this, that’s swell. But it works even in the midst of a busy or noisy place.
Simply close your eyes and take a few deep slow breaths. Tune in to the sensation of a full breath filling your body on your inhale. Make your exhale long and slow.
Repeat a few times. That’s it!
2. Give yourself a little pep talk
Having let go of tension, this is a perfect moment to remind yourself of how amazing you are. Simply create a short statement of affirmation.
Say something like, “I am a remarkable, capable, loving person.” Of course, you can include whatever attributes you most want to affirm for yourself!
In this moment of thought you add a juicy dollop of self-love to your day! (If you want to learn about self-love and how to tame your self-critic, download my guide here.)
This step takes your spirit a step higher.
3. Give yourself at least three “Yay Me’s”
I love having my clients share “Yay Me’s” — which are simply statements of acknowledgement for good things they have done. These opportunities for self-appreciation can be about small moments of courage or commitment, or bold steps or accomplishments, or anything in between.
While you may want to think back to acknowledge yourself for something significant you did in your past, be sure to recall at least one or two things you did in the last 24 hours.
This gives you evidence that you do great things all the time, and adds a boost to set you up for positivity for the rest of your day.
Take note of meaningful shifts
This short process can be completed in as little as one to two minutes!
You can extend it if you wish, but even when done quickly, the stress-filled or negative thoughts you felt at the start will be changed.
You are bound to experience both a physiologic change and an energetic change.
Do you feel calmer? Refreshed? Are you thinking more positive thoughts?
Look for an opportunity to use this process for several days in a row (whether or not you are experiencing stress) and see how the cumulative effect adds up.
You can amplify this process
When you are in a positive frame of mind more of the time, you can choose to think more creatively — about everything in your life! Why not look for ways to bring your positive energy into the next conversation, or the next solution to a client’s challenges, or whatever you are focused on today?
Leave a comment or email me and let me know how this quick 3-step process works for you — as well as any of the other suggestions I shared last week.
Stay safe and well, and keep creating.
